Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Can't think of a clever title, so I'm sticking with... TWO MONTHS?!!

    
Some other temple... East coast! 
I can't believe it either... I have been here for roughly two months already and time has flown by. I am finally feel like I am settling into my daily schedule of school and riding the bus to a fro. These last two weeks have been pretty buy with my visit to Sokcho, the school festival and a wedding. I can't express properly with words how it feels to be an exchange student. The only way to truly understand is to experience it yourself. It has become on of the most gratifying experiences in my life so far. I am so thankful for this opportunity and even though it has only been two short months since I have been here I feel as though I have learned so much about life and about myself. I think experiencing other cultures first hand is one of the most important parts of life. Learning the ways of different cultures opens the mind to new ideas and acceptance of things outside of your comfort zone. So many people go through life only experiencing one culture, thinking that one way is the only way to live, but I think life is so much for than that. Life is about experiencing things, about growing and finding ways to be happy.

 I recently started reading a book called The Happiness Project, recommended to me by Avery Nelson. I am only about half way through the book but I recommend it to everyone. It is about making your life happier even if it is already in a good, stable place. I think there is always be a way to make yourself happier. I took this as a message to fully embrace the culture that I am living in and make it my world %100 for the next year. This goal will hopefully make this year THE best year of my life and completely unforgettable. 

Anyways... moving on from my inner-monologue. I promised in my last post that I would tell you about the school festival and my trip to the mountains, which really turned out to be the east coast which has mountains right next to it. I also attended a wedding and went to a park that holds the graves of a past prince and princess. 

View from hotel room

Two weekends ago, my host parents and I headed out early Saturday morning for what I thought was going to be the mountains. The drive was only about four hours and that put us on the opposite side of the country, next to the sea and sitting right outside of the mountains in Sokcho. It was so beautiful! We stayed at a resort on a golf course. My parents played a few rounds of golf with some old friends the first day and early the second morning. Then me and my host mom headed out to do some sight seeing. We were planning on going to Soeraksan, one of Korea's national parks but the line just to park took about 30 minutes and the walk back to the entrance of the park was even longer. I have never seen so many people, outfitted in hiking clothes, waiting in lines to take the bus to the entrance. Koreans really do take their hiking attire seriously, walking sticks and all. We ended up skipping that excursion and went to a Buddhist temple called Naksansa instead. It was right on the east coast, settled up on a cliff with blue-green waves crashing below. We did some more site seeing that day then headed back home. Even though I did spend quite some time sitting in the hotel, it was definitely worth it so see the wonderful views of ocean and mountain. 

The school festival was much like a talent show with everyone crammed into the gym watching students sing, dance, play music, Etc. Some students from the Osan American High School came for the day to watch and hang out with a group of students from my school. It was great getting to know some of them and learn about living life on a military base for their whole lives. One of our own exchange students from France danced to a few K-pop songs and she did awesome! She is an amazing dancer and plans on dancing as a profession I believe. She is now the most popular girl in school. It is pretty funny hearing all of the boys yelling "I love you!!" to her from down the hallway. There are so many talented kids in our school that dance, sing and play piano. It was quite an enjoyable event. 

I guess this post is a little longer than I wanted it to be but I only have a few more things to share! This last weekend I went to a wedding of some relative (not really sure who though). The venue was gorgeous. The inside of the building had an old, villa kind of look with white drapery and old chandeliers. The ceremony itself was only about fifteen minutes with lunch right afterwards. Korean weddings are not as long as American weddings. With no reception after, accept for a quick lunch buffet, we were only at the wedding a total of one and a half hours. Short and sweet! 

Koren life has become pretty second nature to me. I have gotten used to the social rule of no cleavage, but show as much leg as you want and talking to those older than me with words in the polite form. I have figured out the ways of my school uniform. Knowing how to fold the skirt a little to make it a tiny bit shorter and not tucking my white button up in, instead letting it hang down from under my sweater-vest to make it not look so awkward. These school uniforms were definitely made for girls that are of the stick skinny variety. My chopstick skills have improved to the point where it feels weird to use a fork and I can successfully eat ramen noodles with chopsticks. 

That is all for now! This weekend will be pretty busy hanging out with friends and exchange students which is a good things I think! Means I'm settling in right? If there is anything you are particularly interested in or have questions just leave a message and I will try and answer them as best I can! Until next time!! xoxo


P.S. I had an amazing meal of roast duck at a local restaurant, I have a feeling this is a meal that Connor  Rohwer would appreciate very much (: 

                                                     Pictures from trips and parks below!!

Omma and I at Naksansa



Drive to Soeraksan

Naksansa

Naksansa

Naksansa

Naksansa beach!

A park near my town 

a lovely fall day with everyone out and about!
                                         

 

Monday, October 8, 2012

A little shopping with a side of shopping

This last weekend the twenty-some of us exchangers from my district packed up a bus and headed to Seoul (only really about 45 min away).   We started off meeting at a train station a few towns away from where I live. About 1/3 of us met there and got on the bus for the drove into Seoul. The rest of the group took the subway all the way in (because of the locations of their "hometowns") and had no idea where to go... but we all made it safe and sound. Once we met up as a big group we were given our schedule for the weekend.


View from bottom of the tower
Upon first glance we were all super excited! We were going to go to the Blue House (SK's White House),  Some palaces, museums, shopping districts, Namsan Tower, and a temple. Unfortunately we were not able to actually go inside the Blue House and Namsan was too crowded to make it to the top that night. But I did have a great time hanging out with everyone and spent ALL of my monthly allowance. We got glimpses of some fireworks going off around Seoul from the oh-so-crowded Namsan tour area and saw a few female monks while tasting some of the best tea I have ever had. My host parents promised to take me to Namsan Tower soon so I can see what Seoul looks like from the top.

My favorite place on this "tour" was The buddhist temple we visited. It was located somewhere in Gangnam across from a huge mall/ conference center called COEX. For being in the center of a bustling city it was one of the most peaceful places I have been to in a long time. The building were gorgeous and it seemed like the perfect escape. There were people praying in the various temples that scattered confined area and a huge Buddha statue stood towards the back of the whole temple area. There was a tea booth set up with three types of teas. I tried two of the three and they were both amazingingly fresh. It had never crossed my mind before that a female could be a monk but apparently so! All I have ever seen or heard of about monks has been from books of movies and they have never depicted them as women. It makes me feel like women are stepping up in the world even more!





I finally stayed in my first hotel in Korea and had my first experience of eating fast food hamburgers for breakfast from Lotteria (think McD's but a little worse). I cease to be amazed at the things I come across here. It was a short three days and I was already back at school today. My legs are still a little sore from all the wandering around markets and malls and I look forward to the 6 day weekend coming. Mid terms are amongst the students of my school and I swear I can feel the pressure in the air. Next week is a festival to celebrate being done with mid-terms and the school wants us to perform something... we decided to elect two of the six of us to represent the exchange students. I will let you know how that goes! Also, This coming weekend I am going to the mountains and I am super excited!!
Here are some pictures from The weekend! 
Namsan Tower
COEX, Smaller than MOA but still a pretty big
Dongdaemun Market

Dongdaemun, take this x10 and you have how many hats there were. 
My fellow American Natalie
Buddhist temple

연꽃차 Lotus Tea




lantern convered ceiling at temple
                                                                        Until next time!!

Monday, October 1, 2012

It's been a while!

I feel like I have been horrible at blogging. My last blog was about three weeks ago already. Time has been moving very fast here. I am already about 6 weeks into my exchange year!  I am staying busy with school, meeting new friends and celebrating holidays! This past weekend was Chuseok. Sort of like Thanksgiving but it lasts 4 days. We started the celebrations on saturday. my Abba's family came over to our apartment to spend the night. We made tons a rice cakes and other foods which we used for the alter that was set up for my host father's father. I wasn't allowed to participate but it was a really cool experience to watch how they pray for their loved ones that have passed.  The next day we headed to my mother's side of the family's house out in a smaller town and spent two full days eating, hunting for pam (a sort of nut, super yummy) and watching lots of TV. I also went to my first norebang! It is like karoake only you go into a little room with your small group and sing...or scream... I had a super fun time, and it doesn't matter how bad of a singer you are either.

Now lets jump back, two weekends ago I went to the ING conference (International next-generation global leaders conference). That's a mouth full. It was 5 nights and 6 days of mostly speaking english. I met some pretty amazing people while I was there. Some were rotex who were on exchange  2-6 years ago, some were locals and some were just there because their english was really good and from places around the world like Malaysia, Germany and Russia. During the conference we did a whole bunch of interesting things. We were split into 3 groups. I was in the Environment and Science group. The two other groups were human right/politics and culture/art. Each group was told to create a presentation that would be given at the end of the week on a subject that fit within our topics. My group ended up talking about alternative energy and the future. I was elected to talk because my english was the best out of the 6 or so of us that worked on 5 of the 15 slides. I am not the best public speaker, my knees like to shake... but I made it through alive. Some of the other things we did were touristy. We went to a traditional "castle" in Suwon, then went shopping. I got some super cute socks with giraffes on them! We also went to Seoul for an evening. Given free reign we ended up staying in Gangnam the whole time to do some more shopping and sticker sajin (a shop dedicated to little photobooths with different themes and editing options that make your eyes huge and your skin lighter). I had sooo much fun. And I danced to Gangnam Style in Gangman station... No biggy or anything... Let's see, what else did we do? Oh yeah,   I saw North Korea. We didn't get to go to the actual DMZ because of time limits but we went to another place where you can see NK over a river. I think I will get another chance to go to the DMZ later this year on a Rotary trip. We spent one day listening to some speakers talk about different subjects. I got a few naps in that day. All in all it was super fun and nice to meet some new faces from all over the world! Who knew that Canadians could be so cool?? I also learned all of the faces that korean girls make in pictures... I'm sure they will pop up in a lot of my pictures through out the year.



                                                               
My host family has been wonderful. They are so caring and treat me like their daughter. We eat almost every meal together, even breakfast before I go to school. My omma wakes up with me and sits at the table with me while I eat my cornflakes. I want to tell her to not wake up so early but I think she feels like she has to, just to make sure I have everything I need and that I make it out the door in time. They are very protective, even with their own kids they are very protective. Omma always watches me when I am trying what she made for dinner to make sure it tastes okay. It seems like we are always eating something new when she cooks and she always watches me take my first bite to see if I like it or not. Sometimes I usually say "oh yummy!" but other times she can tell by my face that it isn't my favorite. I would say that 50% of my meals are at home and the other 50% are out at restaurants. I think I have eaten out enough in the last 6 weeks to last me a year. Korean meals are very different from American meals. There is always kimchi and usually some other little plates of bean sprouts, or other varieties of kimchi , of course rice, and then one big plate or bowl in the middle that we all eat off of.  Usually when we eat out or if  a lot of family are over we eat sitting on the floor by a low table. I am still getting used to sitting crossed legged for so long but I am sure by the end of the year it will be easy as pie!

A few weeks ago I went to my first rotary club meeting. My rotary club is mostly made up of men, with one woman and the district governor who is also a woman, came to this particular meeting. I gave my  introduction in korean. (My Omma helped my write it). Then the questions started, in broken english; Do you have a boyfriend? What are your hobbies? Do you like Korea? Do you like eel?. That last one confused me quite a bit until I realized when we pulled up to the restaurant after the meeting that we were having eel for dinner.  I was a bit nervous to try it, I thought it would be close to the texture of octopus but it was actually pretty tasty! It is pretty expensive to eat so this may have been the only time I eat it. If you ever have it sitting in front of you for a meal don't be scared to try it! I had a great time talking to the men that sat around me. One of them, and older gentleman who is a doctor, is learning english. He worked very hard at putting together sentences. He was so cute and he said some really hilarious things! I think his favorite is "bottoms up!", which he said every time he and the other rotarians would drink.

What else haven't I talked about? The weather here is getting cooler but the leaves haven't changed color yet. I miss all of the oranges, reds and yellows of the leaves back home but I am sure they will start to change here soon. I am getting so happy that it is getting cooler, any one that knows me knows I love winter!! I met a boy at school who lived in the US for 6 years up until last year and he skis and an english teacher at my school told me that there are "ski clubs" that go skiing every weekend. Maybe I can get in on that? I will have to see how much it costs.  Hopefully I can make at least one or two trips out to the mountains to ski... I don't know what I will do if I don't get to ski this year!!

In the next few weeks I only have a few days of school. I don't have school until Thursday this week, then Friday I leave for a rotary but trip to Seoul. SOOO EXCITED!!  Back to school monday and tuesday then mid terms start wednesday and we aren't "allowed" to go to school while they are testing, so no school until the next tuesday. I will still have University in the afternoons but I will have lots of down time and will blog again after I spend the weekend in Seoul and the next weekend out in the mountains with my host family who are playing in a golf tournament. All in all I am having a wonderful time and learning so much about myself and how this new culture operates. I can't wait to see how this year pans out.  Until next time!
                                      My cousins thought photo booth was the coolest thing ever!
                                           NORTH KOREA!!!

Making rice cakes!
eating kimchi pancakes with my little cousins! and of course watch Kdrama!
                                         We squeezed almost 10 people around this little table.